Dear You Who Said "It's Okay" Too Many Times,
#TheSearchForLove
You thought love meant endurance.36Please respect copyright.PENANAKaHTpu50q7
That to be chosen, you had to tolerate the things that hurt.36Please respect copyright.PENANAlKb7dHjKBx
That staying quiet, staying soft, staying "understanding"36Please respect copyright.PENANAvMo880T0E1
would make them stay too.
You weren't weak for forgiving them.36Please respect copyright.PENANASWkrWx2XzO
You were just hungry for love.36Please respect copyright.PENANAfR9T6vy7c0
And they knew it.36Please respect copyright.PENANAkMz6YGW6fl
They fed off that hunger,36Please respect copyright.PENANAoccwrdpshU
taking more than they ever gave back.
Each time you said "I'm okay,"36Please respect copyright.PENANAOHGixF4Dj0
you swallowed a truth that should've been spoken.36Please respect copyright.PENANAhJvlTh9Nkt
Each time you forgave without receiving even a hint of remorse,36Please respect copyright.PENANAJD2WTUd9x2
you abandoned a part of yourself36Please respect copyright.PENANASEzyQMXjsc
just to be seen, just to be kept.
But real love doesn't ask you to bleed36Please respect copyright.PENANAjnx9Sdio6p
to earn someone's warmth.36Please respect copyright.PENANAb9AhuEv4tj
It doesn't demand your silence36Please respect copyright.PENANAloG0hknDzg
just to keep the peace.
You weren't dramatic.36Please respect copyright.PENANAVQXgkq8rSH
You weren't too much.36Please respect copyright.PENANA7ZzNOj5yUH
You were just a girl who wanted to be loved the right way36Please respect copyright.PENANAD50wHHgQDJ
but didn't yet know what the right way looked like.
Let me tell you now:36Please respect copyright.PENANA9wngT30VS7
Love doesn't make you choose between being respected36Please respect copyright.PENANAz7tI7CjoSC
and being held.36Please respect copyright.PENANAAYr23ike7Y
It doesn't turn your softness into a weapon against you.36Please respect copyright.PENANAiOJ6iaqouZ
It doesn't make you feel guilty for hurting.
You can forgive, yes—36Please respect copyright.PENANAGt61B7tT16
but not at the cost of losing yourself.
The girl who kept giving chances...36Please respect copyright.PENANA1bMqsdd6Ge
She didn't fail.36Please respect copyright.PENANA9NskaSDQLw
She just hadn't learned yet36Please respect copyright.PENANAGxiRp9EyMB
that being loved shouldn't feel like begging.
I see you.36Please respect copyright.PENANAdJrBbFkwn8
And I want you to know—36Please respect copyright.PENANAFC9OSDW9UO
you never had to try that hard to be worthy.
You always were.
With all the love you deserved back then,36Please respect copyright.PENANATrhK8WFgky
—From the version of you who finally learned what love really means
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